Kel's Hot Spot

Is Romance Dead? What have you done for them lately?

2008-10-19T11:04:00.000-07:00

Are you a true romantic at heart? Are you the type of person who remembers your lovers favorite scent and picks it up for them without thinking? Or do you have it in you to create a romantic picnic on the bedroom floor, or did you recreate their high school prom because they missed theirs? What is the most romantic thing you have ever done for your significant other? Or what is the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you? And what was your response or their response. Chime in guys..... give the readers some new ideas......

You love your mate!!! But can't stand his/her Momma or Kids!!

2008-10-12T15:55:00.000-07:00

You and your mate have been kicking it strong. Everything is on and popping... Lovely to say the least. And then you meet his/her Mom and can't stand her. Keep in mind your mate is very close to their Moms and they make it known to you that they are a package deal. She's always around and when she isn't around she is calling or they are calling her. What your lover doesn't know is that Moms is always making references to the EX, going on and on about how much she preferred the EX and how if she had to make the choice, she would have chose them for her son or daughter. Or other back handed, rude comments that truly get under your skin. But in front of your lover she is the picture of perfection and apple pie. . What do you do?? Do you wait around and hope and pray your time together is limited (knowing good and well it won't be). Do you approach Mom dukes and let her know as respectfully as possible that you are truly not the one. Or do you risk the relationship and tell your lover that his/her Moms gets on a nerve that hasn't been created yet.... Keep it real, this is kinda touchy........

Bi-Bi Birdie...... If your current lover had a bi-sexual past, would you continue seeing them??

2008-10-05T06:33:00.000-07:00

So, you are in the relationship of a lifetime. Your partner is all you want and need them to be. They are loving, caring, trustworthy, a beautiful person inside and out. You have shared your past experiences with this person and vice versa. This is your best friend and you are ready to take this relationship to the next level. You are in LOVE, and it feels sooo good. Almost too good to be true, right?? And you you find out from a outside source that your Prince or Princess Charming had a bisexual experience in their past. Now keep in mind you found out this information from an outside source, not your loved one, but you know the information is true. What do you do? Are their past experiences any of your business?? Do you leave this wonderful person/relationship immediately? Or do you consider it to be Pre-YOU, anything previous to your relationship is irrelevant?? In a nutshell, do you overlook the past and carry on with the future, or does the past dictate the future?? Chime in folks..... think outside the box. If it were you, what would you do?? Keep it real.........

I will never marry you! But am I wrong for not telling you that??

2008-09-27T19:34:00.000-07:00

Have you ever enjoyed someone's company, had wonderful sex, loved to kick it with them..... But you knew that you would never settle down with them? For whatever reason, you enjoy the person you are with but you know that isn't "wifey"? Or for that matter, you love being his boo and wearing his jersey around the crib but he is not "husband material". The question of the day is "Should you be honest about your intentions or lack thereof and risk hurt feelings and potentially getting dumped"? Or should you just enjoy the ride and avoid the subject of the future and marriage whenever it comes up?? Are we responsible for what our spouses expect? If you know that person is not the one, is it fair for you to continue the relationship knowing they expect more? Chime in Guys, let us know what you think.......... And keep it real !!!

How Close Should Your Best Friend and Your Lover Actually Be?

2008-09-20T18:31:00.000-07:00

Your best friend in the entire world. Someone you would give your last dollar to, trust with your inner most secrets, and go to battle for if they needed you! But, how secure are you?? What are the fine lines between being friendly and flirty?? How well do you want them to actually get along with your mate. So the question of the day " If your best friend and your mate started to develop their own friendship, how would you react to it and why"? Would you take the stance of "I am soooo glad the two most important people in my life are getting along"! Or would it be more like "What the f*#k is going on in this mamma-jamma"! Keep it real and think about the question..... If conversations were being had without you around and maybe even plans to get together. How secure are you with your friendship/relationship, or is it even a matter of security? It may just be a matter of some fine lines and respect. Or point blank you may not trust the two of them together. Key in and let us know what's on your mind. And remember..... Keep it Real!

What would you do if your partner was caught cheating? Would you keep it moving or try to fix what has been broken?

2008-09-13T12:52:00.000-07:00

Sooooo, you got caught with your hand in the cookie jar?? Or your partners weird ways have been exposed.... Either way you slice it, it all boils down to three little words"YOU ARE BUSTED"!!!! Now what would you do? Is that one of many things that are unforgivable or do you offer the offending party a pardon? Is it a scenario of "Once a cheat, always a cheat", or would you take the approach of "Everyone deserves a second chance"? So to break it all the way down, the question of the day is " If your partner was caught cheating, would you pack your bags and head for the door or would you stick around and work things out"? And remember, keep it real! It's easy to say what you will do when it's not happening to you. Let's open this hot topic up for discussion.

How important is sex in your relationship?

2008-09-06T09:45:00.000-07:00

So the question of the day is........."What if you found the perfect mate and the sex was whack, I mean beyond repair and coaching. How important is physical intimacy for you? The question of the day. Can you have a successful relationship if the sex is bad or would you want too? Share your thoughts and keep it real........

What's More Important To Be Loved or Freedom?

2008-09-01T10:02:00.000-07:00

Hey Guys,

This was my most recent poll and you all have responded to this question in various ways. All responses are your opinions, no judgement here or bashing, just a place to freely express yourself. I love you all for your participation. And remember "I paint myself the best, because I know my own colors". Love, peace and blessings....... Chime in guys, this is our site!

Here are some of the responses I have already received, do add comments. Tell me what you think.....

"I would rather be loved because real love, u are free."

" FREEEEE as a bird!!!! I'd rather my partner be "passionate" not compassionate" AND I want my lover to be totally capable of living without me....."

"Loved, it's the most natural emotion to want need and desire. Not only to want but to give also"

" Love, what's love got to do with it??? I want to be FREE Man. Free to decide if and when I love you. Free to do my thang. And free to tell you to kick rocks if necessary. And if you love me, you will understand. Word UP :) "